As ancient as the earth, as sacred as the stars: birth is the wild wisdom of creation

Welcome, Mom-to-be!

You are carrying within you a new life, a new soul ready to explore this world. Whether you’re eagerly anticipating birth or feeling nervous about labor, each birth can be a profoundly transformative experience. I am here to support you in making it just that—a journey rooted in trust, strength, and empowerment.

Birth is not just physical
She is wild, primal, and deeply sacred
A dance between surrender and strength
She is not bound by control, she flows with trust

For you are not just birthing a child
You are birthing a new you
Within you, the raw, ancient power
of the wild woman stirs
Let her rise

And through this journey, you will be held

I hold space so you can step into your power
I hold stillness so you can find your rhythm
I walk beside you so you can embrace the journey with trust

You are powerful beyond measure
Let me remind you when you forget
Together, we reclaim the ancient wisdom of birth

What is a doula?

A birth doula is a trained professional who provides continuous, personalized support to expectant mothers and their partners throughout the pregnancy, labor, and postpartum journey. Unlike a midwife, who is a medical professional responsible for delivering the baby, a doula focuses on emotional, physical, and informational support. We empower both the mother and her partner by offering guidance, comfort, and advocacy, ensuring that they feel informed and confident in their choices during this transformative time.

Emotional Support

A doula offers compassionate, non-judgmental presence, listening to your concerns and providing reassurance. We're here to help reduce anxiety, ease fears, and create a calm, supportive space for you and your family.

Physical Support

We assist with comfort measures such as massage, breathing techniques, and positioning during labor to help alleviate discomfort. Our hands-on care adapts to your needs, making the experience as comfortable and smooth as possible.

Informational Support

A doula provides evidence-based information on pregnancy, labor, and postpartum care, empowering you to make informed decisions. We will answer your questions or explain your options and are here to guide you every step of the way.

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Birth Package Service

Every birthing journey is unique, and my birth doula package is designed to meet your individual needs and preferences. Whether you’re planning a home birth, hospital delivery, or cesarean, I can offer you my support as a doula. My packages combine prenatal, birth, and postpartum support to ensure you feel confident, prepared, and cared for at every stage. Explore the details below to see how I can guide you through this transformative experience.

Prenatal Visits

After our first intake there will be at least three prenatal visits to prepare for your birth and nurture the trust between us.

There are many topics which can be discussed during the prentals, for example:

Your wishes, fears, and needs for your birth experience.
Your birthplan.
The stages and physiology of labor, pain relief options, interventions.
Comfort techniques such as massage, birthing positions, visualization, and accupressure.
How to make informed decisions which align with your preferences

Labor & Birth Support

When your labor begins, I’ll join you from the moment you would like me to be there, ready to provide consistent, calm support.

My focus will be on your emotional and physical well-being, using the techniques we practiced during the prenatals, while the midwife or medical staff oversees your medical care.
I’ll help create a grounded and comforting environment so you can focus fully on your birthing journey.
I will remain by your side from the start of labor until well after your baby is born, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way.

Postpartum Check-ins

After your baby’s arrival, I’ll visit to check in on you and provide support as you settle into this new phase of life.

In the first week, I'll come to see how you are doing as you transition into motherhood. We can discuss any questions or thoughts you have about the birth and early postpartum period.
A final visit around 5–6 weeks postpartum will give us time to reflect on your birth story, celebrate your journey, and address any remaining questions or needs as we conclude our work together, ensuring you feel supported during this new chapter.

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Hi! I am Mel

I’m a birth doula with a deep love for nature, intuition, and the raw power of birth. A mix of a dreamer and grounded thinker and with a background in biology and life experience in the Far East, I trust both evidence-based knowledge and the deep wisdom which we carry in our souls.

I trust in following our hearts. Every birth, like every life journey, is unique and I honor that. I offer unconditional love and support for your choices without judgment. Because we all have our own path in life, and that is the beauty of it. It is my calling to support women and their newborns as a doula, walking alongside you to hold space with calm and love so you can feel empowered through birth’s transformation.

Outside of birth work, you’ll find me drinking tea, getting lost in reading or writing a book, or crafting crystal jewelry. If you’re looking for a doula who brings both calm and depth to your birth journey, let’s connect!

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Get in Touch

Get in touch to schedule an introductory meeting, where we can discuss your needs and see if we’re a good fit. I’m based in Dinteloord and I can work with clients within a 60 minute drive.

I speak fluent English, Dutch, German, and Mandarin.

Dinteloord

+31 6 20 995 993

idesadoula@gmail.com

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